Celebrate the Difference

 Have you ever wondered why men and women differ? Why can it be so complicated trying to communicate to someone of the opposite sex? We often feel the things we are communicating will be understood especially when we even feel we are so crystal clear there is no possible way to misinterpret. Well turns out there is quite a lot that though perceived to be crystal clear on one side of the glass is smudged and distorted on the other side. 

Males and females are different not just physically from the moment they exist. Even as babies we are able to observe that girls are much more able to pick up on facial features which can translate into emotional cues at some point, while boys are much more likely to react to the action that is taking place around them. This seems to be something that generally continues on forward as the babies mature into kids, then teenagers, and then adults. Why is this though? Why are males and females so different?

When you take a look at some of the roles men and women play in life it begins to click. Women are much better at picking up on emotional cues (as mentioned before) and being able to multi-task. These are extremely necessary characteristics when you think about the job and role as a mother. Motherhood is something that demands full attention to all things children. It is important that a mother is able to pick up on the emotions of her child. That way she is able to see to their needs and nurture them as they learn and grow. She needs the skill of multi-tasking to keep her up for the challenge any one of her kids may throw her direction. These are only a few of the many wonderful characteristics that make up that of a good mother. Without these attentions to detail and emotions and all sorts of situations, a child would not truly know or understand some of the beautiful aspects motherhood can be for all involved. 

On the other hand, we have the man to take into consideration. Men have astute attention to focus on one thing at a time. They are often able to remain calm in action-packed scenarios where challenging things surround them. They are problem solvers and protectors for loved ones. These qualities truly come into play with the role of a father. Father's often have the responsibility to provide for and protect their family. The ability to focus on one thing at a time aids them in their tasks to help the family stay afloat with their physical (and other) needs. Being able to stay focused and to remain calm in intense situations also gives a stability and protection to any man's family or other loyalties (to their country, etc.). These are something that if men did not have there could be some serious challenges in a family.

Each of these differences is essential to the survival of humanity. Without those inherent distinctive qualities, there would be many challenges to the human race. Though the differences may cause confusion or issues between the opposite sex, they are necessary for families and for others to make it through this world. 

That is why it is important to celebrate the differences. This world should not be men pitted against women or women pitted against men. At the end of the day, we are all children of God. We were made different to help one another not to fight one another. I hope one day the world will realize we are all more powerful together than we are divided sex against sex. With an optimistic outlook, I look forward to the day the whole world celebrates the difference between men and women. 

Until next time

- Olivia